At some point every child will have to hear the word no. It is a good thing to not always give your child everything they want. By telling your child no you are also teaching them about reality.
The other side to this is teaching your child to say no correctly. Just as you are very likely to say no (and hopefully you are sticking to it) your child may feel the need to tell you no and stick to it. Sometimes as parents we feel the need to get defensive and say things like "you can't tell me no" or things of this nature. No is a very powerful word and sometimes, if it is logical, listen to your toddler that is telling you no.
Sometimes we get so caught up in how cute our babies are and we want to keep them little that we give in easy. The truth is that the world won't always be as nice, so at the same time that we are being loving and protective we need to show them structure and reality.


